‘I was so lucky’: A gay son honors his dads lost to AIDS
Sometimes, Noel Arce has trouble remembering his dads. Not his biological parents — he never met them: His birth mother gave him up as an infant, and he never knew who his birth father was. But in 1988, he and his brother, Joey, were taken in by Louis Arce and Steven Koceja, a gay couple from Manhattan. Louis was a social worker, and Joey, 2, and Noel, about 10 months old, were in the foster care system. The boys had been surrendered at New York City’s Metropolitan Hospital. “Our mother and dad were heroin addicts, and they couldn’t really care […]