The pain of racial injustice lingers. Here’s how you can support your Black partner
It takes a strong Black person to date a white person. For better or for worse, romantic relationships are a minefield of opportunities to explore Black/white dynamics in America. It works well when the white partner is able to reduce the harm they create and learn from their partner, but it can also be traumatizing for the Black partner to relive life-alienating societal patterns in one of their most intimate relationships. When a white man is fascinated with my last name, I don’t expect them to know that it reminds me of how my family history has been ill-kept. In […]