Veteran comes out as gay in his obituary: ‘Now that my secret is known, I’ll forever rest in peace’

After a lifetime of secrecy, a decorated veteran came out as gay in his obituary. Col. Edward Thomas Ryan, who is said to have lived most of his life in Rennselaer, New York, was a brother, uncle, retired firefighter and Army veteran. He also was gay, the late Ryan wrote in his own obituary. The obituary, published by the Albany Times Union on June 8, 2024, ended with a message written by Ryan himself. “I must tell you one more thing. I was Gay all my life: thru grade school, thru High School, thru College, thru Life,” he revealed, adding that […]