Taiwan will hold a referendum on 24 November on whether the country’s civil code should recognize same-sex marriage. It is a blow to campaigners for equal marriage in the country.
The country’s highest court ruled last May that refusing same-sex couples the right to marry was unconstitutional. It was the first such ruling in Asia.
The judges gave a two-year year deadline for legalization of same-sex marriage. But, politicians have been slow to legislate.
Conservative group, the Happiness of the Next Generation Alliance, argued for a separate law to protect ‘family values’.
In August, they submitted a referendum petition to the election commission. On Tuesday (9 October) Taiwan’s Central Election Commission approved a petition.
Equal marriage campaigners have denounced such a law as failing to give genuine equality. The election commission also agreed to a referendum on including LGBT education in the curriculum.
Jennifer Lu, the coordinator of activist group Marriage Equality Coalition Taiwan, said she felt ‘very sorry’ about the referendum.
‘These three referenda are trying to remove LGBTI citizens from the Civil Code and LGBTI education from schools’.
But, she said, ‘we do not have time for disappointment’.
Lu urged LGBTI Taiwanese and their allies to have ‘millions of conversations’ to let everyone know that equal marriage will increase social harmony. ‘We will try our best to win and let Taiwan move toward a better future’.
Lu also said that government inaction had increased division in society.
President Tsai Ing-wen campaigned on a promise of equal marriage ahead of elections in 2016. Since her Democratic Progressive Party took power, however, the LGBTI community has grown frustrated at her failure to legislate equality.
Taiwan is largely regarded as one of the best places to be LGBTI in Asia. Furthermore, later this month, tens of thousands are expected to attend the region’s largest pride parade.
An Illinois-based lawyer is seeking $26 million in a defamation lawsuit against his co-counsel in the representation of a Guantanamo Bay inmate, an alleged mastermind of the 9/11 terror attacks.
Tim Jon Semmerling claims that Chicago defence attorney Cheryl Bormann outed him to the client, alleged Al-Qaeda camp trainer Walid bin Attash, telling him the lawyer was seeking an intimate relationship with him.
The lawsuit complaint, filed on September 29 in an Illinois district court and seen by PinkNews, also names Department of Defense employees and members of the defence team Michael Schwartz, Brigadier General John G. Baker, Major Matthew H. Seeger and Edwin Perry as having taken part in a “character assassination” against Semmerling and his work, accusing them of having intentionally afflicted him emotional distress.
People walk past a guard tower outside the fencing of Camp 5 at the US Military’s Prison in Guantanamo Bay, Cuba on January 26, 2017. (Thomas Watkins/AFP/Getty)
According to complaint, Semmerling worked on the defence team as a mitigation specialist between June 10, 2011 and October 23, 2015. Both Semmerling and the rest of the defence counsel were aware that the attorney’s sexual orientation should remain secret as their client “would not tolerate people on the team” who were either gay, served in Iraq and Afghanistan, or were Jewish.
Semmerling claims he was not sure what had happened when he was dismissed from the team until April 28, 2016, when he said he learned that Bormann and Schwartz had told the rest of the defence counsel that they outed him as gay to bin Attash. They allegedly falsely told the client that Semmerling was “infatuated” with him and “was pursuing a homosexual interest” with him.
The complaint claims that Semmerling’s firing was “wrongful” and the result of a “personal vendetta” from the rest of the team, and it implies that it followed bin Attash expressing dissatisfaction with the work of the counsel, except for Semmerling.
Walid bin Attash (Public domain)
Bin Attash, one of five Guantanamo inmates facing trial for their alleged role in the 9/11 attacks, had requested to represent himself a few days’ before Semmerling’s dismissal. According to a Reuters report dated October 19, 2015, bin Attash told the judge via an interpreter he no longer trusted his Pentagon-paid legal team. The judge refused bin Attash’s request a few weeks later.
Semmerling alleges that being outed to the enemy combatant has affected his physical and emotional wellbeing, as well as having had an impact on his career.
“They have hurt my career, these people, they have made sure I can never go back by outing me to Guantanamo Bay to work with any of the people down there,” Semmerling said in an interview to Fox32 Chicago in February.
The Tongva Tribe believed that homosexuality was a gift and called queer individuals “two spirited.”
LGBTQ+ history in Los Angeles begins well before Los Angeles even existed. Before colonial settlers took over in 1781, L.A. was called Yang Na and was home to the Tongva Tribe.
A mural depicting the colonization of Tongva people.
The Tongva people believed in gay marriages, transgender lifestyles and that homosexuality was determined in utero. The Tongva celebrated homosexuals as “two spirited” people, thinking of it as a gift rather than defection. Eventually Catholicism took over the majority of religion in the Yang Na area, diluting the native beliefs and practices.
A Tongva woman sits in front of her hut in what is now the L.A. River Basin
Though much of the Tongva history has be erased, there is a Yang Na plaque at the El Pueblo de Los Angeles monument near Olvera Street.
A new national survey captures the feelings of a strong majority of Americans who believe that businesses should not be allowed to deny services to people based on their sexual orientation (81%) or gender identity (80%). In a comparable question, 75% of Americans believe that when a business opens their door to the public, they should be open to all and serve everyone on the same terms. The results of TheHarris Poll®, conducted in conjunction with Out & Equal Workplace Advocates, may be found in full online at https://theharrispoll.com/americans-insist-that-businesses-should-be-open-to-all-and-the-government-needs-to-do-more-to-protect-lgbtq-rights/To amplify this finding, the survey also reports that nearly 9 out of 10 (89%) Americans say they are very likely or somewhat likely to support or shop at a business that does not discriminate on sexual orientation or gender identity, along with race, ethnicity, national origin, sex, religion or disability. By the same overwhelming margin (89%), Americans also say they are very likely or somewhat likely to work for a business that does not discriminate on all these characteristics.
Erin Uritus, CEO of Out & Equal Workplace Advocates, welcomed the results: “In our extensive experience, Americans are sincerely accepting and welcoming. These ingrained beliefs are mirrored by business leaders who understand that all forms of discrimination are toxic for the marketplace and workplace. Out & Equal has helped shape and accelerate this culture by educating corporations and advocating for the equality of LGBT workplaces for over two decades.”
Uritus added that the post-Masterpiece era today has emboldened corporations to strengthen their commitment to nondiscrimination. This past June, the U.S. Supreme Court narrowly ruled in favor of a Colorado baker who relied on his religious beliefs to refuse to prepare a wedding cake for a same-sex couple. “The tide is rising for acceptance globally and not just here in the U.S. That evidence is best shown by the many multinational brands and executives who join us at this year’s Summit.”
These and other findings were included in the 2018 Out & Equal Workplace Survey, released today. This popular study was conducted online between September 13 and 17, by TheHarris Poll® in conjunction with Out & Equal Workplace Advocates among 2,006 U.S. adults, of whom 184 self-identified as lesbian, gay, bisexual and/or transgender. First launched in 2002, the unique Out & Equal Workplace Survey is a highly trusted barometer of attitudes surrounding LGBTQ issues in the workplace and the longest-running national opinion survey of its kind.
These survey results were formally presented today by John Gerzema, CEO of The Harris Poll. Gerzema is considered a pioneer in the use of data to identify social change and help leaders and organizations anticipate and adapt to new trends and demands. He appeared at a featured panel today at the 2018 Out & Equal Workplace Summit in Seattle, the world’s largest gathering of LGBTQ business leaders and professionals and joined by more than 300 Fortune 500 corporations and guests from over 32 nations.
“Despite America’s polarization during this charged election cycle, the Harris Poll reflects the truth that fundamental fairness matters deeply to most Americans” said John Gerzema of The Harris Poll. “The pace of change towards acceptance of LGBTQ equality continues to set high marks, and underscores why so many business leaders are outspoken champions for the community.”
2018 Out & Equal Workplace Summit
The 2018 Out & Equal Workplace Summit concludes today in Seattle, Washington, successfully attracting a record 6,000 attendees from more than 32 countries. LGBTQ executives, employees and straight allies, along with human resources and diversity professionals, representing a broad cross-section of the nation’s leading companies—a majority from the Fortune 500 — are participating in this year’s Summit, focused on achieving workplace equality and inclusion.
This Harris Poll was conducted online (in partnership with Out & Equal with guidance and support from Witeck Communications) within the United States between September 13 and 17, 2018, among 2,006 adults (ages 18 and over), of whom 184 self-identified as gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender. Figures for age, sex, race, education, region and income were weighted where necessary to bring them into line with their actual proportions in the population. Propensity score weighting also was used to adjust for respondents’ propensity to be online.
All sample surveys and polls, whether or not they use probability sampling, are subject to multiple sources of error which are most often not possible to quantify or estimate, including sampling error, coverage error, error associated with nonresponse, error associated with question wording and response options, and post-survey weighting and adjustments. Therefore, The Harris Poll avoids the words “margin of error” as they are misleading. All that can be calculated are different possible sampling errors with different probabilities for pure, unweighted, random samples with 100% response rates. These are only theoretical because no published polls come close to this ideal.
Respondents for this survey were selected from among those who have agreed to participate in The Harris Poll surveys. The data have been weighted to reflect the composition of the adult population. Because the sample is based on those who agreed to participate in The Harris Poll, no estimates of theoretical sampling error can be calculated.
These statements conform to the principles of disclosure of the National Council on Public Polls.
About Out & Equal Workplace Advocates
Out & Equal Workplace Advocates is the world’s premiere nonprofit organization dedicated to achieving lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender workplace equality. Out & Equal collaborates with Fortune 1000 companies and government agencies to provide a safe, welcoming and supportive environment for LGBT employees. For over two decades, since 1996, Out & Equal has worked with executives, human resources professionals and Employee Resource Groups to provide leadership and professional development, education and research.
Out & Equal hosts an annual Workplace Summit, where employees and experts from around the world gather to share strategies and best practices to create workplace equality, inclusive of all sexual orientations, gender identities and expressions. For more information go to www.outandequal.org.
About The Harris Poll®
The Harris Poll is one of the longest running surveys in the U.S. tracking public opinion, motivations and social sentiment since 1963 that is now part of Harris Insights & Analytics, a global consulting and market research firm that delivers social intelligence for transformational times. We work with clients in three primary areas; building twenty-first-century corporate reputation, crafting brand strategy and performance tracking, and earning organic media through public relations research. Our mission is to provide insights and advisory to help leaders make the best decisions possible. For more information, or to see other recent polls, visit us at TheHarrisPoll.com and follow us on Twitter @HarrisPoll.
About Witeck Communications, Inc.
Witeck Communications, Inc. (www.witeck.com) is a leading strategic marketing communications firm, specializing in outreach, advocacy and engagement with LGBTQ communities. In 2003, American Demographics magazine identified Bob Witeck one of 25 experts over the last 25 years who has made significant contributions to demographics, market research, media and trend spotting for his path breaking work on the LGBTQ market.
Petter Wallenberg is fundraising for Uganda’s first LGBTI space. | Photo: Rainbow Riots/Facebook
10 October 2018
A minister condemned Uganda‘s LGBTI community for planning to build a safe space in the capital Kampala.
This would be East Africa’s first center for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people.
Providing the community with such a space would be a milestone for the African nation.
Gay sex, in fact, is still illegal in Uganda under colonial laws. Therefore, even organizing a Pride march might be dangerous for those involved. In 2016, police officers raided Uganda Pride and held hostage participants.
The minister said: ‘They can’t open a centre of LGBT activity here’
After months of planning and a fundraising campaign, however, authorities have told Rainbow Riots activists their project is illegal.
Simon Lokodo, the country’s minister for ethics and integrity, said opening the community center would be a criminal act. It would violate the law that currently criminalizes homosexuality.
‘They will have to take it somewhere else. They can’t open a centre of LGBT activity here,’ he said.
‘Homosexuality is not allowed and completely unacceptable in Uganda.’
He furthermore added: ‘We don’t and can’t allow it. LGBT activities are already banned and criminalised in this country. So popularising it is only committing a crime.’
‘His condemnation cannot stop us’
Nonetheless, LGBTI activists are continuing their fight and going ahead with their project.
Despite opening the center in Kampala might put their freedom at stake, they are hoping to open the center in 2019.
They have already raised the equivalent of $4,000.
‘I feel saddened by it, but not surprised,’ founding director of Rainbow Riots Petter Wallenberg told GSN.
‘As a gay man who has lived through modern day gay liberation, I have seen homophobia in many shapes and forms before. I have been in dangerous situations in Uganda and other places and it doesn’t deter me from fighting. We tend to forget that these kinds of homophobic attitudes were normal in Europe and the US not long ago. But they changed because we fought back,’ he also said.
Trans activist Alicia Houston also expressed her outrage at the minister’s statement.
‘Our country is facing a lot of serious challenges like corruption and killings, and LGBTI people are doing no harm by only wanting to exist. He should accept that LGBTI people do exist,’ she told GSN.
‘Of course LGBTI people feel so bad because the idea with this centre is to help us develop our talents and skills and give us something to be proud of. His condemnation cannot stop us. This centre is not a criminal act.’
The HIV Client Advisory Committee will have their next meeting later this month. The committee’s co-chairs, Wade Flores and Bobby Moske, want all clients to know that an email address has been set up for anyone who would like to reach the committee hivclientadvcomm@thespahrcenter.org. The email goes directly to a committee member who is coordinating communications.
Volunteer Opportunities
We need a few volunteers to help out at our front desk. This involves answering a multi-line phone system, connecting callers with staff members, greeting clients, providing information and assisting pantry shoppers and syringe exchangers. Our volunteer receptionists are the face and heart of The Spahr Center; we’d love to have you join our wonderful team!
The available shifts are Tuesdays 9 am – 1 pm or 1pm – 5pm; Wednesdays 9am – 1pm; or Fridays 1pm – 5pm. If you are interested please call Bri at 415-457-2487 or email her here.
Hear from one of our front desk volunteers
From a post on GivePulse written by one of our Service Learners from Dominican University
“Today I was a bit more comfortable in my position than I was last week since I had a bit more experience…. In the needle exchange, we provide the clients with clean needles and other supplies to help reduce spreading of infections or diseases…. Today, one of the clients came in and he was talking to me about how he was embarrassed to have to come in to pick up the needles and carry them down the street. This was interesting to me, because I hadn’t really thought about that before. Even in a paper bag or a backpack where the needles were covered up, he was worried that people were going to judge him. He told me he imagined that I never thought I would be surrounded by people like him…. I hoped that he knew that I was not judging him. I’m only here to serve and to gain new learning experiences, not to judge anyone or their choices. It was a very impactful moment to me, because I hadn’t been worried that clients would feel as if I was judging them. Being here allows me to learn about myself and being aware of what I am doing. It helps me to remember that I am here to support clients and serve them as best as I can and to assure them that I am not here to make judgements, only to help them.”
Resources for Family Caregivers
Are you caring for a loved one? You give lots of support, but you deserve support too. Click here to find a variety of helpful information, in-person and online groups for people providing caregiving to a family member. Family Caregiver Alliance has partnered with Smart Patients to create a new Caregivers Community. You can join for free to learn, share and interact with other caregivers in a safe, supportive environment. Be well!
Day of The Dead
We will have a community altar for Dia de los Muertos. If you would like to place something on the altar to honor a loved one or someone who is no longer with us, please bring your remembrance to our office. The altar will be in our community room starting Wednesday October 31st through Friday, November 2nd.
Not In Our Town – Novato
Presents a screening of the film Light in the Darkness
Not In Our Town: Light in the Darkness tells the story of residents of a Long Island village taking action after a series of anti-immigrant attacks by local teenagers ended with the hate crime against a local immigrant Marcelo Lucero. While starkly revealing the trauma of hate, the film provides a blueprint for people who want to do something before intolerance turns to violence.
This event is free and open to the public
Date: November 8, 2018
Time: 6:30 p.m. – 8:30 p.m.
Location: Unity in Marin 600 Palm Drive, Novato, CA 94949
Hosted by: NIOT Novato, Novato Charter School Many Hearts Committee
In cooperation with: The Novato Unified School District, Novato Police Department, City of Novato and Unity in Marin.
Gender Awareness and Education
In collaboration, The Marin County Office of Education, The Spahr Center and Domincan University invite you to three special events on November 14th and 15th.
All 3 events are free of charge and open to the public; however space is limited and you are encouraged to register.
For more information please contact Bri at 415-457-2487
LGBT Senior Discussion Group Update
Buz Hermes, the facilitator of our Corte Madera discussion group, reports that the group has grown every month since it started last January! Now, Buz says, the goal is to add more lesbian, bisexual and transgender women to the group. The monthly meeting is on the second Wednesday from noon to 2:00 pm in the community room at Corte Madera Town Center. Click here for more information
Save the Date for our next Senior Luncheon!!
Our next LGBT Senior luncheon will be Wednesday, November 28th at The Marin Yacht Club. Stay tuned for more details!!
Stacey Abrams emerged from her SUV on a busy Midtown Atlanta street corner on Sunday with a declaration to make to the throngs of voters attending the Atlanta Pride Parade, the annual celebration of LGBT rights in the heart of the city. “We’re here because we stand together, because we know that allies do not run from fights. And because we know we all have pride in Georgia,” she told cheering supporters, adding: “We stand with you and not against you.”
Shortly after, she became the first major-party nominee for governor to march in the parade, a vibrant spectacle that attracted just about every major corporation in Atlanta, dozens of political candidates and tens of thousands of Georgians. Her contingent, led by a group that included U.S. Rep. Hank Johnson and former 6th District hopeful Jon Ossoff, hoisted rainbow-colored flags and stark-blue Abrams signs.
Straight people, apparently (Pexels and ItsAlexJackson/twitter)
A tweet highlighting how straight people sexualise small children has gone viral.
A common accusation aimed at people who try to educate children about LGBT+ issues, or at least let them be their true, potentially queer selves, is that they are ‘sexualising’ kids.
In July, Doug Mainwaring, a writer for LifeSiteNews, wrote on the site that June — which is celebrated as Pride Month around the world — should be called ‘Let’s Sexualise Children Month.’But, of course, in this heteronormative society we live in, it’s actually straight people who are more commonly guilty of pushing their expectations onto children.
And it was this point which American activist Alex Jackson made in an excellent fashion on Sunday (October 14), writing: “straight people: gay people are forcing their sexuality onto their children.
“Straight people, to a 5 year old boy talking to a girl: IS THAT YOUR GIRLFRIEND.”
“Straight people, to a 5 year old boy talking to a girl: IS THAT YOUR GIRLFRIEND” (ItsAlexJackson/twitter)
This observation clearly struck a chord with lots of people, as it has attracted more than 110,000 retweets and likes in less than 24 hours.
Many of these fans were people who readily shared their own experiences of straight adults pushing their own sexual experience on children, and even babies.
One wrote: “This girl i went to school with on fb posted she was pregnant and her friend goes ‘i hope its a boy so [her kid] can play with him, or if its a girl [kid] can be her boyfriend’ THE THING AINT EVEN FULLY FORMED AND THEY WERE DOING THE BOY/GIRLFRIEND THING LOL.”
“THE THING AIN’T EVEN FULLY FORMED AND THEY WERE DOING THE BOY/GIRLFRIEND THING” (OccultAlien/twitter)
Another tweeter commented that “onesies that say ‘CHICK MAGNET!’ and ‘don’t let my dad know you’re staring at me’ and shiz like that makes me feel so yucky inside.
“Hopefully that trend will die off soon 😅” (ashlynnlee_14/twitter)
“I don’t think parents that say and buy things like that really know what they’re doing is wrong, but hopefully that trend will die off soon 😅.”
And others told stories of when they were personally affected by straight pressure.
“I’m embarrassed to say that this was done to me, speaking to a grown woman, by my dad, who knows I’m gay. I’m 27 yall,” one person tweeted.
“I’m embarrassed to say that this was done to me, speaking to a grown woman, by my dad, who knows I’m gay” (vetos_/twitter)
Another said that their family “kept asking me about having a girlfriend since I was in preschool, so I really thought I had to even though I liked boys instead of girls.”
“I really thought I had to even though I liked boys instead of girls” (Naegi26/twitter)
And yet another commenter wrote that “my coworker says her 9 month old is flirting with me because he loves touching my hands and playing with my fingers as if thats not what all babies do.”
“As if that’s not what all babies do” (ikywtmyg/twitter)
Over the past year, anti-LGBT+ critics have said that drag kids Desmond is Amazing and Lactatia are the result of children being sexualised by queer advocates.
A group of mothers even launched an attack against Aldi because the supermarket chain stocked David Walliams’ The Boy in a Dress, a book they said was part of an “agenda to groom and sexualise” children.
Hey LGBTQI and friends community: You are all invited to a spectacular & fun Halloween Dance Party!
It’s being held at the Sebastopol Senior Center.
You don’t have to be gay or a senior to attend, all adults are welcome! Multiple rooms will be set up of your enjoyment.
We have a DJ in our largest room, with a Drag Show scheduled for 9pm, with Joseph singing his hit Halloween song “I Put a Spell on You.” You can also enjoy complimentary Palm Readings with George, Tarot Card Readings with Susan, and our super cool Black Light Room (wear white to shine bright).
Those in costume will be eligible to win prizes in our Costume Contest!
Finger foods provided. Beer and Wine for purchase.
$10 admission.
Saturday, October 27, 2018 at 6:30 PM – 10 PM
Sebastopol Area Senior Center
167 N. High St., Sebastopol, California 95472
‘I’m extremely scared,’ says Khairul, a young gay man from Brunei.
‘Khairul’ (not his real name) would only speak to GSN under the condition of anonymity out of fear of persecution in his home country.
‘Being gay in Brunei is something which means keeping it to ourselves and trying not to be open about it. There’s an invisible pressure which keeps us hidden,’ he says.
‘It really scares me to think that if they find evidence that proves I’m gay or conspiring against Sharia Law [by virtue of being] LGBT, then I’m scared that they might actually take action, and have the reasons to, I don’t know… Put me through conversion therapy, a trial, jail, a fine, or maybe execution.’
Tucked away on the island of Borneo and surrounded by the East Malaysian state of Sarawak, the tiny country’s majority-Muslim population of around 420,000 live under the absolute monarchy of Sultan Hassanal Bolkiah.
In May 2014, Hassanal announced that Brunei would begin the full implementation of Sharia law, to be introduced in stages over a number of years. The strict Islamic laws carried harsh sentences for a number of actions deemed offensive.
There was, perhaps, no group more affected than the LGBTI community: those found guilty of homosexual sex, the law decreed, would face punishment of death by stoning.
Almost overnight, Brunei was thrust under the global spotlight. The backlash against the anti-LGBTI laws was swift; with the international press leading the charge of shared outrage, celebrities and public figures began voicing their shock and revulsion, promising to boycott businesses with ties to Brunei.
Brunei in proximity to its neighbors in Southeast Asia
But real political action against the oil-rich nation was virtually non-existent. The initial shock soon faded, and the media cycle moved on.
In the four years since, the country’s move towards implementing Sharia law continues. For Brunei’s already marginalized LGBTI community, the possibility of prosecution, and perhaps a gruesome death sentence, is a lingering fear which never goes away.
Forced underground
In the space of a generation, various nations around the globe have seen rapid gains for LGBTI rights. This has largely been achieved through persistent political campaigning, relying on public visibility, and mobilization of the LGBTI community and its allies.
In Brunei, such forms of activism are an abstract concept. The mounting pressure has essentially forced the LGBTI community underground, to the point where it becomes a logical stretch to use ‘community’ as an accurate descriptor. Any attempt at open advocacy in Brunei is met with severe legal and social repercussions.
The pressure to conform can force many people to forcefully reject or suppress homosexual feelings. In some cases this can manifest in extreme forms, with gay men undergoing conversion therapy in attempts to ‘cure’ themselves.
‘I know one person who went through conversion therapy, and [he’s] acting as a straight man now, and married to a wife and has children,’ says Khairul. ‘I’m not sure what kind of therapy — I don’t even want to know, because I’m too scared to know what he went through.’
In Khairul’s experience, attempts at community building or reaching out to other gay men is restricted to the online space.
‘Social media is a good medium. But public social media, like Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram, if we were to say that we’re from Brunei and we’re gay, and we don’t tell our real identity, the Brunei community will actually go immediately on a “riot” and give extreme negative comments to everything,’ Khairul says.
‘I wrote an (anonymous) article about being gay, and reading some of the comments then I felt attacked, like “The ministry of religious affairs should deal with this,” or “You should be converted – it’s not too late,” or “We can save you if you come back to your religious roots”.’
Real connections are also difficult to build. The fearful climate leads closeted men to look to the online space to seek out secretive, non-committal sex over genuine relationships.
‘We were raised in this controlled community, and if we know that we’re gay then we have no rights, to be married, to have children, so we might just opt to have just sex with other men; we don’t care who they are,’ Khairul says.
The challenge of advocacy
‘Brunei [is] certainly the most conservative country in Southeast Asia,’ says Matthew Woolfe, founder and director of The Brunei Project, the only group whose main focus is advocating for LGBTI rights in Brunei.
‘I think that conservatism extends to the LGBT community. In general, the LGBT community in Brunei is much more low-profile than most other countries, and, whereas many of Brunei’s neighbors do have strong LGBT advocacy networks that have been quite vocal and have been campaigning for LGBT rights for some time, then, unfortunately, that just isn’t there in Brunei.’
The Sultan of Brunei, Hassanal Bolkiah, is thought to be one of the richest people in the world | Photo: YouTube/Alux.com
A native of Australia, Woolfe founded The Brunei Project in 2015 after hearing about the country’s adoption of Sharia law.
‘Something just clicked with me when I heard about these laws that were being implemented, and how unfair they are, and certainly how unjust and terrifying some of the laws are,’ says Woolfe.
The current reforms to implement Sharia law are still ongoing. Implementation of the second stage of the three-stage process — which includes the laws which can see the execution by stoning for homosexuality — is expected to begin within the next year.
Although the burden of proof for death by stoning is high – at least four people must testify to having seen the individual commit a homosexual sex act – and the law has not yet been implemented, just the thought of it has pushed the LGBTI community further into hiding.
‘I think people in Brunei, in general, are very afraid to take a risk,’ says Khairul. ‘Everyone wants to see change, they want things in the country to improve, they want their basic rights like to speak out, and so forth, but while they want those rights and they want to change, there are very few people who are actually willing to take the risks necessary to push for that change, and to advocate for that.‘
‘In general, I do feel extremely frustrated about the people who are don’t even want to fight for their rights for being gay, as they feel like it’s impossible,’ Khairul adds.
‘That’s one of the big challenges with LGBT advocacy in Brunei,’ says Woolfe. ‘People are relying on their private networks, and keeping it within those networks for support, but they’re not reaching out to these other organizations where they could potentially draw from their experience to start forming some sort of advocacy movement within Brunei.’
Reaching out to Southeast Asia’s LGBTI community
The Brunei Project has firsthand experience of the challenges in trying to organize for such a cause in the country.
In 2016, the group hosted a low-key get-together for members of the LGBTI community in a hotel in Brunei. Though it went off without incident, when Woolfe later attempted to reenter Brunei he was stopped by immigration officials and told he had been effectively blacklisted and barred from re-entering the country.
‘Initially, I thought: “OK, where do I go from here?”’ says Woolfe. ‘Hopefully one day I’ll have it overturned. It does make it harder doing this work.’
Since then, Woolfe has begun developing ways to conduct his work for The Brunei Project in absentia.
‘A lot of the work that we had done, and continued to do, we based on social media,’ he says. ‘I continue to make new contacts through social media [and] continue to work with these contacts who are based in Brunei, it just means that I can’t visit the country myself.’
The Sultan Omar Ali Saifuddin Mosque in Brunei
The situation has also added urgency to the group’s efforts to forge connections with LGBTI groups in neighboring countries. Recently, The Brunei Project has begun building ties with LGBTI community support group Oogachaaga based in Singapore, offering gay Bruneians a nearby community to reach out to for help and support.
‘We have received a small number of clients connecting with us from Brunei, talking about feeling isolated with no local LGBTQ community resources, finding it difficult to live closeted lives, which in turn impacted their relationships with loved ones,’ Leow Yangfa, Oogachaaga’s executive director, said via email.
‘Not surprisingly, there were also concerns about their mental health and psychological well-being. The Brunei Project recently reported that there has been an increase in the number of suicides. Hence, in addition to offering our online counseling services, we also connected The Brunei Project with suicide prevention hotline and email services in Malaysia (Befrienders) and Singapore (Samaritans of Singapore).’
‘I feel like it’s going backwards’
While spreading the word and building connections with neighboring human rights groups is a necessary step, it is still very much a start. Brunei remains a conservative and closed-off country, where the fear of legal and social persecution has become nigh-on instinctual in the mindsets of many LGBTI Bruneians.
This is also at a time of heightened fear for the country’s LGBTI community. Though the transition into Sharia law has encountered delays, the Bruneian government is expected to see through its full implementation within the next few years.
In this respect, optimism is in short supply when considering the future of LGBTI rights in Brunei.
‘Unfortunately, I don’t see any sort of mobilization coming in the near future,’ says Woolfe. ‘I think that there’s a fear that if they do become more vocal and more active that may actually be to their detriment. From what I’ve gathered, there tends to be a feeling that if they keep a low profile and not get noticed, then they may be able to get through it.’
‘I feel like it’s going backwards and getting to a worse situation,’ says Khairul.
‘In all honesty, I feel like I can’t do much. I feel like I can’t even help my community by protecting them. If someone was out openly and they get attacked I’d feel like I’d need to protect them, but I’m scared that I can’t.’
