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  • UPenn to ban trans athletes, feds say, ending civil rights case focused on swimmer Lia Thomas

    The University of Pennsylvania has agreed to ban transgender women from its women’s sports teams to resolve a federal civil rights case that found the school violated the rights of female athletes.

    The U.S. Education Department announced the voluntary agreement Tuesday. The case focused on Lia Thomas, the transgender swimmer who last competed for the Ivy League school in Philadelphia in 2022, when she became the first openly transgender athlete to win a Division I title.

    It’s part of the Trump administration’s broader attempt to remove transgender athletes from girls’ and women’s sports.

    Under the agreement, Penn agreed to restore all individual Division I swimming records and titles to female athletes who lost out to Thomas, the Education Department said. Penn also agreed to send a personalized apology letter to each of those swimmers.

    It wasn’t immediately clear whether Thomas would be stripped of her awards and honors at Penn.

    The university must also announce that it “will not allow males to compete in female athletic programs” and it must adopt “biology-based” definitions of male and female, the department said.

    Education Secretary Linda McMahon called it a victory for women and girls.

    “The Department commends UPenn for rectifying its past harms against women and girls, and we will continue to fight relentlessly to restore Title IX’s proper application and enforce it to the fullest extent of the law,” McMahon said in a statement.

    The Education Department opened its investigation in February and concluded in April that Penn had violated Title IX, a 1972 law forbidding sex discrimination in education. Such findings have almost always been resolved through voluntary agreements. If Penn had fought the finding, the department could have moved to refer the case to the Justice Department or pursued a separate process to cut the school’s federal funding.

    In February, the Education Department asked the NCAA and the National Federation of State High School Associations, or NFSHSA, to restore titles, awards and records it says have been “misappropriated by biological males competing in female categories.”

    The most obvious target at the college level was in women’s swimming, where Thomas won the national title in the 500-yard freestyle in 2022.

    The NCAA has updated its record books when recruiting and other violations have stripped titles from certain schools, but the organization, like the NFSHSA, has not responded to the federal government’s request. Determining which events had a transgender athlete participating years later would be challenging.

  • Democratic governor vetoes anti-trans measure passed by Republican legislature

    North Carolina Gov. Josh Stein (D) has vetoed several anti-diversity bills, including one that would ban gender-affirming care for transgender inmates in the state prison system.

    The bill is H.B. 805, which bans the state from paying for gender-affirming hormone replacement therapy and surgeries for transgender inmates. It would have also required the state to keep a copy of a transgender person’s original birth certificate if they have the gender marker on it updated, and it included language saying that there are only two genders, male and female. 



    According to WPDE, the bill started as a bipartisan measure requiring age verification for adult websites, but the final version of the bill contained a list of far-right initiatives, including the ones listed above related to transgender people’s rights and another measure that would require school districts to create a policy to allow parents to opt their kids out of activities that “impose a substantial burden on the student’s religious beliefs.”

    “My faith teaches me that we are all children of God, no matter our differences, and that it is wrong to target vulnerable people, as this bill does,” Stein said in vetoing the bill.

    The other three bills that Stein vetoed on Thursday were related to diversity measures. One of the bills would have cut funding to schools that engage in diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI) initiatives. Another bill would have banned diversity training and staff positions at state agencies, and it also would have banned state funds from being used for diversity initiatives at those agencies.

    “We should not whitewash history,” Stein wrote about the education bill, adding that the state “should ensure our students learn from diverse perspectives and form their own opinions.” He said the bill about state diversity measures is “riddled with vague definitions” and “imposes extreme penalties for unknowable violations.”

    The bills passed along party lines, with all state Democrats opposing the diversity bills and only one Democrat voting in favor of the anti-trans bill. Republicans have a nearly veto-proof majority, but they need at least one Democrat to cross party lines in the North Carolina House of Representatives to overturn Stein’s veto.

    State House Speaker Destin Hall (R) said in a statement that Stein “has sided with radical activists over the overwhelming majority of North Carolinians who believe in parental rights, biological reality, and protecting women and children.”

    Stein signed eight other bills on Thursday, including one that prevents parents from being charged with abuse or neglect if they raise a transgender child “consistent with the juvenile’s biological sex.” It’s not clear that there have been such cases in the state, but the idea that the government will remove trans children from unaffirming parents’ homes has been a rightwing bogeyman for years

    Republicans across the country, though, have supported measures to take children away from LGBTQ+-affirming parents on the grounds that affirming a trans kid’s gender identity is child abuse.

    Another bill that he signed bans adoption agencies from denying anti-LGBTQ+ parents the opportunity to adopt if they oppose letting a trans kid live as their gender. 

    This may seem like the opposite position on the issue that Republicans have taken for years, where they denounce any state interference in how private agencies – even those that receive state funds – determine who can be a potential adoptive or foster parent.

    But in previous cases, it was usually anti-LGBTQ+ adoption agencies being told not to discriminate against LGBTQ+ parents, and this bill stops pro-LGBTQ+ adoption agencies from refusing anti-LGBTQ+ parents, which is consistent with the previous Republican position in that both disadvantage LGBTQ+ children.

  • Pete Buttigieg’s replacement begs governors to remove rainbow crosswalks, claiming they kill people

    Transportation Secretary Sean Duffy is asking governors in all 50 states to remove rainbow crosswalks that were installed to celebrate Pride, arguing without evidence that drivers get so distracted when they see the rainbow that they crash their cars.

    In a letter addressed to state governors, the governor of Puerto Rico, and the mayor of Washington, D.C., Duffy states that 39,345 people died on roads in the U.S. in 2024, a 3.8% decrease since 2023, but still “unacceptable.” The letter discusses the SAFE ROADS initiative for non-freeway roads. Duffy wrote that the initiative stresses “recognizable traffic control devices including crosswalk and intersection markings… free from distractions.”



    Making his intent more clear, Duffy told the far-right Daily Signal, “Roads are for safety, not political messages or artwork.”

    “Today I am calling on governors in every state to ensure that roadways, intersections, and crosswalks are kept free of distractions,” he continued. “Far too many Americans die each year to traffic fatalities to take our eye off the ball.”

    He did not specify how many of the 39,345 traffic fatalities in 2024 were due to rainbow crosswalks.

    Duffy was a Fox News host before he was appointed to lead the Department of Transportation following out former Transportation Secretary Pete Buttigieg’s tenure. He was also a Real World reality TV personality earlier in his life.

    Cities across the country have painted rainbow crosswalks at some intersections, often to recognize Pride Month, even though they stay in place year-round. Conservatives have railed against and vandalized these crosswalks as well.

    In 2019, the administration told the city of Ames, Iowa, to remove its Pride crosswalks, which were installed at one intersection. A letter sent to the city from the Federal Highway Administration (FHWA) said that the crosswalks were “distracting” and have “a potential to compromise pedestrian and motorist safety by interfering with, detracting from, or obscuring official traffic control devices.”

    “The art can also encourage road users, especially bicycles and pedestrians, to directly participate in the design, loiter in the street, or give reason to not vacate the street in an expedient or predictable manner,” the letter claimed, not citing any evidence that people were spending an unnecessary amount of time hanging out in the middle of the crosswalks.

    The city refused to remove the crosswalks, saying that the administration had no jurisdiction over local roads.

    Last year, a Republican teen, Dylan Reese Brewer, did burnouts on a rainbow intersection in Delray Beach, Florida. He was ordered to pay $6,000 in damages.

    The same intersection was vandalized by another 19-year-old, Alexander Jerrich, in July 2021. Like Brewer, Jerrich performed a burnout in his truck — which also had a MAGA flag flying from its rear end — to deliberately leave black marks on the rainbow street art.

    A court ordered Jerrich to write a 25-page essay about the 2016 Pulse shooting but declined to pursue a felony criminal mischief charge against Jerrich for fear that it would make it harder for him to find a job. During the trial, Jerrich cried as his father discussed what a disappointment he is. Local LGBTQ+ organizations refused to let Jerrich work with them, even though the judge thought it would help him learn more about the queer community.

    Jerrich was sentenced to two years’ probation, 100 hours of community service, and a mental health screening for his crime.

    “Defacement of the memorial to the LGBTQ+ community should be considered a hate crime,” said Rand Hoch, the president and founder of the Palm Beach County Human Rights Council, in response to Jerrich’s sentencing. “However, local State Attorney David Aronberg previously determined that since the intersection is owned by a municipality and not an individual, Florida’s hate crime statute does not apply.”

  • These hotlines are still available for LGBTQ+ youth after Trump kills 988 services

    The Trump Administration is ending the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline’s LGBTQ+ Youth Specialized Services – but there’s still help available. 

    The federal government revealed it will be closing the program that provides emergency crisis support to queer youth considering suicide effective July 17, several months ahead of its initial October 1 closure deadline that was first revealed by leaked budget draft in April. While Congress can reverse the cuts, it’s unlikely under a Republican-controlled House and Senate. 

    There are still several existing lifelines for LGBTQ+ youth in crisis, whether it involves mental health, substance use, sexual health, or domestic violence. Here are some of the hotlines available within the U.S.

    The Trevor Project

    The Trevor Project Lifeline, for LGBTQ+ youth (ages 24 and younger), can be reached at (866) 488-7386. Users can also access chat services at TheTrevorProject.org/Help or text START to 678678.

    Trans Lifeline

    Trans Lifeline, designed for transgender or gender-nonconforming people, can be reached at (877) 565-8860. The lifeline also provides resources to help with other crises, such as domestic violence situations. Find more information athttps://translifeline.org/

    LGBT National Hotline 

    The LGBT National Hotline provides a confidential safe space where callers of any age can speak about sexual orientation or gender identity/expression issues. It can be reached at 888-843-4564 11 a.m. to 8 p.m. PST (2 p.m. to 11 p.m. EST) Monday through Friday, and on Saturday from 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. PST (Noon to 5 p.m. EST). 

    LGBT National Youth Talkline

    The LGBT National Youth Talkline provides youth ages 25 and younger a space to talk about relationship concerns, family, bullying, school issues, HIV/AIDS anxiety, safe sex information, suicide, and more. It can be reached at 800-246-7743 11 a.m. to 8 p.m. PST (2 p.m. to 11 p.m. EST) Monday through Friday, and on Saturday from 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. PST (Noon to 5 p.m. EST). 

    Crisis Text Line

    Crisis Text Line has previously partnered with FOLX Health for queer-specific services. It is available by text, web, and WhatsApp in both English and Spanish, connecting those who reach out with a live, trained crisis counselor within five minutes. You can seek support by texting HELLO or HOLA to 741741, or through WhatsApp by messaging 443-SUPPORT or 442-AYUDAME for Spanish.

    The Pride Institute 

    The Pride Institute has helped LGBTQ+ people recover from substance use disorder, sexual health issues, and mental health conditions since 1986. Reach out at 952-934-7554 or at https://pride-institute.com/

    National Runaway Safeline

    The National Runaway Safeline Provides assistance to runaways, including resources, shelter, and transportation. By calling or texting 1-800-RUNAWAY (1-800-786-2929), you can connect with a trusted, compassionate person who will listen and help you create a plan to address your concerns. Live chat is also available at https://www.1800runaway.org/youth-teens/get-help

    National Domestic Violence Hotline

    If you or someone you know is affected by domestic violence, the National Domestic Violence Hotline can be reached at 800-799-7233 or by chat at https://www.thehotline.org/here-for-you/. Other resources can be found here.

    National AIDs Hotline

    The National AIDs Hotline provides resources to people living with HIV, and can direct callers to test sites, medical care, prevention services, housing, and more. Call 800-342-AIDS (800-344-7432) or 800-243-7889 for Spanish. Click here for more hotlines in your state.

  • Supreme Court to rule on state bans on transgender students’ participation in girls’ and women’s sports

    The Supreme Court on Thursday waded into the legal fight over state laws that ban transgender athletes from competing in girls’ and women’s school and college sports, taking up cases from West Virginia and Idaho.

    The court will hear cases involving two transgender students, Becky Pepper-Jackson and Lindsay Hecox, who challenged state bans in West Virginia and Idaho, respectively.

    Both won injunctions that allow them to continue to compete in sports. Pepper-Jackson, now 15, takes puberty blocking medication, while Hecox, a 24-year-old college student, has received testosterone suppression and estrogen treatments.

    The court’s decision to hear the case comes two weeks after the conservative majority delivered a major blow to transgender rights by upholding a Tennessee law that bans gender-affirming care for young people. In doing so, the court left various legal questions about transgender rights unresolved.

    “Categorically excluding kids from school sports just because they are transgender will only make our schools less safe and more hurtful places for all youth,” said Joshua Block, a lawyer with the American Civil Liberties Union, who is part of the legal team representing both students. “We believe the lower courts were right to block these discriminatory laws, and we will continue to defend the freedom of all kids to play.”

    West Virginia Attorney General JB McCuskey welcomed the Supreme Court’s intervention.

    “The people of West Virginia know that it’s unfair to let male athletes compete against women; that’s why we passed this commonsense law preserving women’s sports for women,” he said.

    Idaho Attorney General Raúl Labrador, who is defending that state’s law, echoed those sentiments, saying that “women and girls deserve an equal playing field.”

    Oral arguments will likely take place later this year, with a ruling expected by June 2026.

    The states both enacted bans that categorically bar transgender students from participating in girls’ or women’s sports. More than half the 50 states now have such laws, but legal challenges have not been decisively resolved.

    The fight for and against the expansion of transgender rights has become a flashpoint nationwide and was an issue in the recent presidential election, with Donald Trump denigrating Democrats for supporting the effort. His administration has begun to roll back measures taken by President Joe Biden to expand protections for transgender people.

    In February, the National Collegiate Athletic Association also changed course,announcing a new policy to limit women’s sports to “student-athletes assigned female at birth only.”

    In Pepper-Jackson’s case, a federal judge initially ruled in her favor but concluded in January 2023 that the law was most likely legal and allowed it to be enforced against her. Pepper-Jackson appealed, and the Richmond, Virginia-based 4th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals blocked West Virginia officials from enforcing it against her.

    The Supreme Court in April 2023 rejected the state’s attempt to enforce the law against Pepper-Jackson while the litigation continues, meaning she has been able to continue to participate in school sports, namely cross-country and track.

    Hecox, who plays soccer and also runs, similarly obtained an injunction from a district court judge against Idaho officials. She also won on appeal at the San Francisco-based 9th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals.

    Pepper-Jackson and Hecox both failed to qualify for running teams at their respective schools, according to court papers. Pepper-Jackson did place third in the state for middle school discus and sixth in middle school shot put, losing out to cisgender girls. She finished 67th out of 68 in a cross-country event in eighth grade.

    In barring transgender girls from participating in girls sports at the middle school, high school and college levels, the West Virginia law enacted in 2021 says gender is “based solely on the individual’s reproductive biology and genetics at birth.” As such, it says, a female is a person “whose biological sex determined at birth as female.”

    The Idaho law, passed in 2020, states that sports “designated for females, women, or girls should not be open to students of the male sex.”

    Both cases concern whether such laws violate the 14th Amendment to the Constitution, which requires that the law apply equally to everyone. Pepper-Jackson’s case also raises a claim under Title IX of the Education Amendments of 1972, which prohibits sex discrimination in education.

    The Biden administration unveiled proposals on how Title IX applies to transgender athletes, saying that blanket bans would be unlawful but concluding that it may be lawful to limit involvement in competitive sports.

    But the the Trump administration has reversed course, with the White House issuing an executive order titled: “Keeping Men out of Women’s Sports.”

    In 2020, the Supreme Court ruled that federal law barring sex discrimination in employment protected LGBTQ people, a ruling that angered conservatives. The court is yet to rule on whether the same reasoning applies to Title IX.

  • Five Trans Youth Speak Out as SCOTUS Upholds Health Care Ban

    On June 18, the Supreme Court of the United States (SCOTUS) upheld Tennessee’s ban on gender-affirming care for minors. The 6-3 ruling is expected to have a broad impact as 24 other states have already enacted similar laws, which bar puberty blockers, hormone therapy (HRT) and gender transition surgeries for trans youth.

    As of 2024, 46% of transgender and nonbinary youth seriously considered suicide, and many advocates say this is in part because of their inability to access gender-affirming care. 

    Uncloseted Media wanted to pass the microphone to the kids and young adults who could be directly affected by SCOTUS’ decision. So we called up Romana, Zavier, Ray, Dylan and Samuel—who are all receiving some form of gender-affirming care—to get their reaction to the decision. 

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    Spencer: Hi everyone, I am here with five trans kids and young adults from across the United States. Guys, thank you so much for speaking with me and Uncloseted Media today. 

    All: Thank you for having us.

    Spencer: Last week, the Supreme Court ruled 6 to 3 in a landmark case that prohibits health care providers [and] doctors from administering gender-affirming care to minors. That includes puberty blockers and HRT. I want to know, where were you guys when you heard the news and what was your reaction to that?

    Samuel: So I’ve been following this case since November. I think the ruling’s ridiculous. I think it’ll kill kids.

    Spencer: When you say this ruling is going to kill kids, that is a really bold statement. Why do you say that?

    Samuel: It’s a bold statement. The care that enables so many people to live their lives. I think taking that possibility away from people who need it is incredibly cruel and short-sighted.

    Romana: I felt disgusted, especially since I think [it’s] just from [the] hate. And I know people who gender-affirming care has saved the life of as teenagers. And I think every kid should be able to have that. And also, this ruling makes me scared that a state might try to ban trans care for adults.

    Spencer: It could be a slippery slope. 

    Romana: Yeah, definitely.

    Spencer: When you think about your future as a trans person without the care, what does that look like for you? Why is that so devastating? 

    Dylan: Because there’s not one. 

    Samuel: Yeah.

    Spencer: Unpack that a little bit more. Why? Like, why do you think there is not one?

    Photo courtesy of Dylan Brandt.

    Dylan: Personally, now that I have had [testosterone] for almost five years, there would be no way that I would be able to lose everything that I have worked so hard for… And go back to living a life that was not me.

    Spencer: Would you compare it to, like, if I were being forced to live as a woman every single day? Is it the exact same thing to you?

    Dylan: Absolutely. I mean, if you were forced to be living [as] a woman and you, that was not something that you wanted? Absolutely.

    Samuel: I couldn’t do it. I couldn’t do it. When I was younger, it almost killed me then. I couldn’t do it now. I think they’d have to kill me to force me to stop transitioning because it saved my life. I think living as myself, living as Sam, as a man, is so integral to who I am. For somebody to even try to force me to stop that would include stopping me entirely, if that makes sense.

    Spencer: Okay, let’s talk about Donald Trump. Trump has tasked several federal agencies to police and ultimately stop gender-affirming care for minors, which he has equated to child abuse and child sexual mutilation. He’s also falsely stated that kids are going to school and coming back with sex changes. I wanna know, as a trans kid, what would you say if you could talk to President Trump right now?

    Ray: It’s kind of painful to hear the same argument that he pulls out of his asshole every single time just because he wants to weaponize the fact that we’re a marginalized community and people are afraid of us because they don’t understand so his tactic to basically throw people off is to make us look like we’re indoctrinating kids. We’re coming back from school with surgeries. Which, by the way, you don’t just go to school and be like, “Ah, yes, I would like a surgery please.”

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    Spencer: Do you guys feel sometimes like you’re being used by adults as political pawns? 

    Ray: All the time!

    Dylan: Yeah, I have been fighting this fight for so long that I’m not even necessarily surprised by what’s said anymore. I think that if I could say something directly to Trump, it wouldn’t be very nice. Because at this point I’m done being nice. At this point I’m just mad, because it has gotten to a point where they’re toying with people’s lives. They are toying with people’s lives making us look like monsters for their political gain. Because if they have people on their side that think that we are everything that they say they are, people are gonna believe ‘em.

    Spencer: Especially when most Americans have never even met a trans person before.

    Dylan: Absolutely.

    Spencer: And trans people represent, as far as we know, less than one percent of the overall population.

    Romana: I feel like a political pawn, because there’s so much talk about trans people and so much legislation passed around it and it just feels like we’re being used as a scapegoat and just someone to put the blame on and hate on in society. If I could say something to President Trump, I would proudly say something like, “Just leave us alone.”

    Photo courtesy of Romana. 

    Spencer: It’s hard for me to square away why [Trump] would make trans issues the number one platform of [his] campaign when it’s such a small percentage of the population. It doesn’t really make sense mathematically.

    Samuel: I think to your point, it’s exactly because it’s a small area of the population. For a lot of these politicians, the hate is real. But to some extent, it’s like we are the issue they can use right now because we’re such a small community that we’re targetable. It’s the small size of the transgender community and the lack of education that the general public has that is what drives being able to target this group.

    Spencer: I think there’s a lot of misinformation in the United States about what gender-affirming health care actually is. So tell me what gender-affirming health care means to you and how did you make the decision to get on it?

    Dylan: It took me a really long time to realize or to put words to how I was feeling. And once I did, I spoke with my primary doctor who referred me to the gender spectrum clinic in Little Rock. And I went, had my first appointment with them. And that was a six-month process where you meet with those doctors multiple times. You have to be in therapy. You have to get a psychiatric evaluation to make sure that you are doing this for the right reason. And when I tell people that they’re like, “Oh! I didn’t know that. I didn’t know that there was a process,” and I [would say], “Yeah, I’m not just walking in and saying, ‘Hey can I have it?’” And then with my top surgery too. I had to have been in therapy. I had to get letters of recommendation. I had to get it signed off, basically, by multiple people. 

    Gender-affirming care, to me, is hope. I graduated last year, and I never thought that I would make it to graduation, and the only reason that I did is because of my gender-affirming care. I’ve been on testosterone for almost five years, and even up until four years ago I was just so unhappy with the way that I looked, with the way I felt. I didn’t want to go out, I didn’t want to go do anything, and now I do.

    Sam: I think I resonate with everything Dylan said, from the length of the process to the sort of life-saving benefits. I don’t think I would have made it to 18 without starting care at 14 when I did. I was just so uncomfortable, but the process is long. I think it was two years because my parents weren’t really sure about care at first.

    Spencer: I think one of the critiques a lot of adults in this country have on gender-affirming care is that there are irreversible impacts, right? And for things like testosterone, like there are things like facial hair, for example, that you can’t fully go back on, right? Was that decision hard to make when you know that sometimes there will be elements of this that could be not completely reversible?

    Photo courtesy of Samuel.

    Sam: I can see why it would be a hard decision for a lot of people and I think in some ways that’s like why there’s so many safety checks and it’s also why maybe my parents were so. You know, like… 

    Spencer: Cautious? 

    Sam: Nervous, yeah. Especially because they were like, oh, you know my daughter now, you’re no longer my daughter and that was a huge adjustment. But for me, as long as I’ve been out, I’ve known that this is what I wanted to do. Like once I had the language to be able to say, “Yeah, I’m trans,” and knew that that was the path I wanted to go down. So in the end, after considering everything, it wasn’t really a hard decision.

    Spencer: And Zavier, you are 11. A lot younger than everyone else on this panel, and it sounds like you are taking blockers, which to any Americans watching are completely reversible and have been given to cisgender girls for things like precocious puberty for decades. Zavier, what does gender-affirming care mean to you?

    Photo courtesy of Zavier.

    Zavier: Well, when I was 3 years old, I came out and I was wanting to be trans. Once I got older, my parents, they put me on blockers and let me take medicine for it.

    Spencer: A lot of people, adults particularly, would say, how could a kid ever know at 3 that they’re trans? What would you say to that? How did you know?

    Zavier: I just saw people. I just thought about wanting to be trans and I’ve wanted to be trans ever since.

    Spencer: And you’ve always felt like a boy? 

    Zavier: Yeah.

    Spencer: And Ray, how about you? When did you kind of know you were trans or start having feelings that you could be trans and what’s the process for you been like to get on gender-affirming care?

    Ray: I’ve known since I was like 6, 7-ish. I’ve always wanted to be the dad, always wanted to be a king. I didn’t want to be a queen, none of that. It took about seven to eight months of doctors visits. First we had to make sure my mental health was good. So they prescribed me like Strattera and other types of medicines to help elevate my levels and stuff. And then they eventually put me on testosterone.

    Spencer: And how has that been for you, the transformation? Has that felt good?

    Ray Oh, I feel like myself now, finally! I feel like everybody in this call or this meeting feels like themself after they finally take their hormones.

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    Spencer: So for me, a cisgender gay boy growing up, I’d want to wear my mom’s clothes and kind of act like a girl and do different things that would tap into my femininity. But there’s never been a question that I could be a trans woman, right? What do you think is the difference between how you guys feel versus how I feel about wanting to explore my gender?

    Dylan: So in my house, I’ve had both. You know, my brother is a 17-year-old gay man. And when he was little, he did. He put on my dresses and my mom’s high heels and boots and everything. And so we had that, and then we had me. From the time I could dress myself wanting strictly jeans and t-shirts, and nobody was allowed to touch my hair. And there is so much of a difference. My brother was exploring that, and I don’t want to say exploring that as in a hobby, and I was exploring it more as a lifestyle. That sounds wrong to me. But that’s the best way I can explain it.

    Spencer: A big difference could be comparing it to some gay guys [who] like to dress up in drag on Halloween. You want Halloween to be every single day for the rest of your life.

    Dylan: My entire life, yes, yes. 

    Spencer: Take me more into your mind about the feelings of wellness, of health, if you are able to live as your gender identity.

    Photo courtesy of Dylan.

    Dylan: The validation started the moment I cut my hair off. I mean, from that moment, I opened the door for somebody. It was, “Thank you, sir.” We went out to eat with my mom, me and my brother. “What do you boys want?” I mean it was right off the bat. And that’s honestly what made me realize that’s who I was supposed to be, because it made me feel so good. I mean, even to this day, somebody calling me sir or any form of male affirmation, anything, makes me feel so good. Just knowing that these random people in the deep south have no clue who they’re talking to. And if they did, their reaction would be way different. But the fact that these country hicks in the Deep South, who I know voted for Trump, are calling me sir or bub or anything? Makes me feel so good about myself knowing that they have no idea.

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    Spencer: And Zavier, how about you? You’re the youngest, why is it important for you to transition at such a young age?

    Zavier: When I was growing up and people would call me a girl, I would just not feel like I was a girl. And when they said that I would just be like, “No,” inside my head.

    Spencer: And do you play on the boys sports teams and do you use the boys bathroom?

    Zavier: I do use the boys bathroom and my parents are signing me up for kickboxing.

    Spencer: Love it, that’s super cool, yeah. And you feel great since you’ve transitioned. Is there ever any regret or feeling like, “I wanna go back to living as a girl?” No? And that would be the case for everyone here is my sense, right? No regret, no sense of de-transitioning, anything like that, yeah? Do you guys find that when you meet people and actually have conversations with them about who you are and why you need this care, hearts and minds are changed, does that help? 

    Sam: Yeah.

    Spencer: You’re shaking your heads. Yeah, go ahead.

    Dylan: [In my] School, everybody knew, I live in a small town. It wasn’t a secret. Even the 60 Minutes episode, I mean, you have no idea how many people watched that and came to me and said, “I am so sorry. I never thought about it the way that you put it. I didn’t understand until I watched that.” Like there were so many people in my school and work that [60 Minutes] truly changed the way that they thought about the transgender community. People have this pre-idea of what the transgender community is. And it’s just not, at all, how it actually is. And you don’t know that until you speak with somebody that is living it.

    Spencer: And to your point on misinformation, I mean, if you turn on Fox News, which is the most watched cable news channel in this country right now, misinformation is rampant. There are comparisons that gender-affirming care is literally just bottom surgeries or so-called general mutilation. What do you think those media portrayals of trans kids and gender-affirming care for trans kids does to the mindset of Americans as they see you guys?

    Dylan: They see that people are talking about giving 7-year-olds bottom surgery at school. Yeah, that could be scary to somebody that doesn’t understand. You see that, and your brain automatically goes to, “Oh, that’s not right. They can’t do that. That’s not right.” 

    Spencer: But that’s not happening.

    Dylan: That’s not happening, absolutely. But, you see that as somebody that doesn’t know for sure that that’s not happening. And I mean, yeah, I don’t blame them for being like, “Oh, we have to stop this.” But it’s that misinformation of people saying, “Oh this is happening” when it’s not. So they’re scaring people for no reason.

    Romana: I definitely agree that they make it sound really scary. And I’ve met people who’ve thought that way. I think the news really paints trans children especially as victims of being trans, which isn’t true. Or like, you’re being groomed into it, which doesn’t happen.

    Spencer: Zavier, as an 11-year-old, have you even had conversations about surgeries or anything like that?

    Zavier: The answer is no, because I’m only 11 years old, and I started the blockers about a year ago. So, since I’m 11 years old and you usually get surgeries at like 17 or 18, maybe. Nobody’s talked about it to me. Because if I change my mind, which I probably won’t, it’s in like six, seven years.

    Spencer: Right, and you started on blockers because it gives you more time to delay puberty so you can still give yourself time to make up your mind. Right? And that’s something that I’m assuming you’re exploring with your family and your doctor to decide what’s best for you, is that right? 

    Zavier: Yeah.

    Spencer: Ray, is it okay if I speak about the experience we had in South Carolina? 

    Ray: Yeah. 

    Spencer: Okay, well, we came to film an episode on conservative-minded dads. May your dad rest in peace, I know he passed away, and I’m so sorry about that. When we were filming with your dad, who was a military veteran, who was kind of a redneck—can I say that? From Georgia. I remember him saying to me, “This is completely against Republican ideology, get the government the hell out of my child’s doctor’s office.” Do you guys have anything to say about why it’s all Republicans coming after trans health care when it really is completely opposite to how conservatives see government intervention in family health care and parents’ rights?

    Ray: Republicans are really bad at realizing that everything is not their business. We have HIPAA for a reason. They don’t seem to grasp the concept that they don’t to be in everybody’s lives. They feel like they have to protect these children, even though they’re not really protecting them. 

    Spencer: Is it fair to say that like gender-affirming care can be complicated and it can be nuanced and we need to have conversations about nuance by this but it’s tough to have those when you have people just attacking, attacking, attacking?

    Samuel: Yeah, exactly. I mean, it’s medicine and all medicine is complex. Doctors and patients and their families are more qualified than politicians.

    Photo courtesy of Ray.

    Ray: Politicians, they don’t have like a degree in anything to be able to say, “Oh, this is bad.” Like they’ve never done the research. They do not have a qualification. Until I see them have an MD, they don’t have any qualifications to say anything. And I do believe research should be done. I mean, everything has so many different symptoms for every different person. I believe research is very important.

    Dylan: Lawmakers don’t need to be involved in my doctor visits. They have no right. They have no knowledge. I just… They’ve got a lane and they should stay in it.

  • Idaho Attorney General tells schools to ban ‘Everyone is Welcome Here’ signs

    It seems not everyone is welcome in Idaho after the state’s attorney general ordered schools to prohibit signs that read “Everyone is Welcome Here” under a new state law.

    H.B. 41, which went into effect July 1, bans the display of banners or flags in K-12 classrooms that represent “political, religious, or ideological views, including but not limited to political parties, race, gender, sexual orientation, or political ideologies.” Republican Raúl Labrador issued guidance on how schools should apply the law, determining that the policy applies even to vague messages promoting kindness. 

    Labrador specifically referenced signs hung by Sarah Inama, a sixth grade history teacher at Lewis and Clark Middle School who went viral in March after she revealed that Ada School District administration ordered her to remove signs in her classroom that read “In This Room, Everyone Is Welcome, Important, Accepted, Respected, Encouraged, Valued, Equal,” and “Everyone Is Welcome Here.”

    “These signs are part of an ideological/social movement which started in Twin Cities, Minnesota following the 2016 election of Donald Trump,” he wrote. “Since that time, the signs have been used by the Democratic party as a political statement. The Idaho Democratic Party even sells these signs as part of its fundraising efforts.”

    The “movement” that began in Minnesota referenced by Labrador was a group of local moms who carried pastel signs that stated “All are Welcome Here” in protest of someone tagging their children’s high school with racist graffiti following Trump’s election, as reported by Kare11. Some local businesses also displayed the sign in solidarity, but it is not the same design or slogan as the one in Inama’s classroom, which instead featured a row of hands with varying skin tones.

    Per Labrador’s guidance, even children’s artwork could be prohibited under the law “if it meets the statutory definitional criteria of a ‘banner,’” though there is “an exception for a ‘brief curriculum-based educational purpose’ display which may apply to
    the artwork.”

    After refusing to remove the signs for several weeks, Inama ultimately resigned. She told local station KTVB when the controversy first began that “I was told that ‘everyone is welcome here’ is not something that everybody believes. So that’s what makes it a personal opinion.”

    “I don’t agree that this is a personal opinion,” she said. “I feel like this is the basis of public education.”

  • U.N. council votes to keep researching anti-LGBTQ abuses despite U.S. U-turn

    The U.N. Human Rights Council voted on Monday to renew the mandate of an LGBTQ rights expert, a move welcomed by advocates amid the absence of the United States, a former key supporter that is now rolling back such protections.

    Western diplomats had previously voiced concerns about the renewal of the mandate of South African scholar Graeme Reid who helps to boost protections by documenting abuses and through dialogue with countries.

    The motion for a three-year renewal passed with 29 votes in favor, 15 against and three abstentions. Supporters included Chile, Germany, Kenya and South Africa while several African nations and Qatar opposed it.

    “The renewal of this mandate is a spark of hope in a time when reactionary powers worldwide are trying to dismantle progress that our communities fought so hard to achieve,” said Julia Ehrt, executive director of campaign group ILGA World.

    The United States, which has disengaged from the council under President Donald Trump, citing an alleged antisemitic bias, was previously a supporter of the mandate under the Biden administration.

    Since taking office in January, Trump has signed executive orders to curb transgender rights and dismantle diversity, equity and inclusion practices in the government and private sector.

    His administration says such steps restore fairness, but civil rights and LGBTQ advocates say they make marginalized groups more vulnerable.

    In negotiations before the vote, Pakistan voiced opposition to the mandate on behalf of Muslim group OIC, calling it a tool to advocate “controversial views.”

  • Virginia agrees not to fully enforce state law banning conversion therapy for LGBTQ minors

    Virginia officials have agreed not to fully enforce a 2020 law banning conversion therapy for minors as part of an agreement with a faith-based conservative group that sued over the law, authorities said earlier this week.

    The Virginia Department of Health Professions, represented by the state’s office of the attorney general, entered into a consent decree with the Founding Freedoms Law Center last month, saying officials will not discipline counselors who engage in talk conversion therapy.

    Shaun Kenney, a spokesperson with the Virginia Attorney General’s Office, said on Tuesday his office was satisfied with the consensus.

    “This court action fixes a constitutional problem with the existing law by allowing talk therapy between willing counselors and willing patients, including those struggling with gender dysphoria,” Kenney said in a statement. “Talk therapy with voluntary participants was punishable before this judgment was entered. This result—which merely permits talk therapy within the standards of care while preserving the remainder of the law—respects the religious liberty and free speech rights of both counselors and patients.”

    A Henrico Circuit Court judge signed the consent decree in June. Two professional counselors represented by the law center sued the state’s health department and counseling board last September, arguing that the law violated their right to religious freedom.

    The term “conversion therapy” refers to a scientifically discredited practice of using therapy in an attempt to convert LGBTQ people to heterosexuality.

    The practice has been banned in 23 states and the District of Columbia, according to the Movement Advancement Project, an LGBTQ rights think tank.

    The practice has been a matter of dispute in several states. A ruling is expected any day from the Wisconsin Supreme Court over whether a legislative committee’s rejection of a state agency rule that would ban the practice of “conversion therapy” for LGBTQ people was unconstitutional.

    The U.S. Supreme Court decided in March to take up a case from Colorado to determine whether state and local governments can enforce laws banning conversion therapy for LGBTQ children.

    According to the law center, the Virginia consent decree applies not only to the two counselors but to all counselors in Virginia.

    “We are grateful to the Defendants in this case and to the Attorney General, who did the right thing by siding with the Constitution,” the law center said in a statement.

    Democratic Senate Majority Leader Scott Surovell, who backed the 2020 bill, blasted the decree.

    “This was a statute that was enacted to save lives,” he told reporters during a Zoom session on Tuesday. “All the research, all the professional psychiatric organizations have condemned conversion therapy. They say it doesn’t work, and they say it’s counterproductive.”

  • Facts Are the Resistance: Combating LGBTQ Disinformation

    What are the effects of a ceaseless barrage of political attacks on the LGBTQ community?

    Something like a scene from a horror movie animated into real life.   

    This article is in response to a press event attended by GLAAD Media Institute (GMI) organized by Human Rights Watch – a global organization that defends the rights of people worldwide – for the release of a new report titled “They’re Ruining People’s Lives”: Bans on Gender-Affirming Care for Transgender Youth in the US

    As new GLAAD research was released simultaneously, it is clear that there is an abundant overlap in findings: There are catastrophic effects from the lethal assault on the LGBTQ community with a flagrant focus on transgender people. 

    “We lead with facts first,” Tristan Marra, GLAAD’s Vice President of Research and Reports said.

    Marra is responsible for making sure GLAAD’s emerging data gets out to the public in a way that helps shape accurate conversations about the at-large LGBTQ community. 

    “Facts are thought-provoking, facts build empathy, and facts are a bridge to greater understanding. Thoughtful research that shines a light on our lived experiences and the realities we face creates opportunities for cultural change,” Marra continued. 

    Today, the basic rights of trans people, about 1% of the population, continue to get eviscerated year-by-year, state-by-state, and now, under a federal administration dedicated to stripping trans people of their dignity. 

    Twenty-five states have bans in place for best practice healthcare for trans youth, and with at least 17 lawsuits challenging different states’ bans, according to the Movement Advancement Project (MAPS)

    They’re Ruining People’s Lives” documents the harm caused by bans on gender-affirming care for transgender youth in the U.S. It highlights the severe toll this takes on the mental and physical well-being of transgender youth,” the lead researcher and writer of the report Yasemin Smallens said at the press conference. Smallens is an officer in the LGBT Rights Program at Human Rights Watch.

    The report is based on the interviews of 51 people including transgender youth, parents, healthcare providers, and advocates across 19 states, and illuminates the barbaric effects of transgender healthcare bans on transgender people in the U.S. 

    Of those interviewed, 11 families told Human Rights Watch they were compelled to travel out of state for care, often making regular trips to consult physicians, or obtain prescriptions. Four youth were unable to begin care due to legal barriers combined with geographic and financial obstacles. One family relocated to another state to secure reliable access to care and escape an environment hostile to trans people. Seven other youth attempted suicide in relation to the bans; three attempts led to hospitalizations.

    Likewise, GLAAD’s latest research affirms these experiences, and further predicts expectations of violence in the future. 

    The 2025 ALERT Desk report released late last month shows that ​​over the past year, 52% of all anti-LGBTQ incidents were targeting transgender and gender non-conforming people (485 out of 932 incidents). GLAAD’s 2025 Accelerating Acceptance also reported that two in three LGBTQ adults (68%) expect the violence or threats against LGBTQ Americans to increase within the next year.

    For many, this data saves lives, even when it reveals the effects of maleficence. 

    “Research like this, reports like this, are used in court. They’re used to build policy in the legislature. They’re used to advocate for so much in a real, tangible way because there are reports out that are filled with misinformation and disinformation,” Executive Director of PFLAG NYC Clark Wolff Hamel said at the press conference.

    PFLAG NYC has services directly targeting the disinformation that prompts the bans that encourage such violence against a single community.

    A large part of those services are educating families, the education system, state and federal legislature, and community.

    That’s why producing research, Hamel continued, that backs correct information along with actual experiences from real people of the community sets an “incredibly important” precedent. 

    Hamel and Smallens were joined by Meredithe McNamara MD MSc, Assistant Professor of Pediatrics, Yale School of Medicine. NcNamara says that treatment described as gender-affirming care has been used for years. 

    She says that people lose sight of the fact that the vast majority of gender-affirming care for cisgender (or non-transgender) people is surgery. McNamara is trained in adolescent medicine and started learning about gender-affirming care in college. Now, with 15 years of experience, she advocates for trans truth through science and facts.

    “Amongst youth, 97% of surgeries that could be described as for gender-affirming reasons were in cisgender teen boys who had an excess of breast tissue, and felt that did not align with their gender identity and wanted surgery,” McNamara said to the audience. 

    The Yale professor said bans are contradictory, and focus on a minority of people who receive gender-affirming care, while purposely mystifying the majority of people (non-transgender) who receive this care without any issues. The internal inconsistencies and conflicts of a broad ban for trans healthcare will create confusion, and codify dangerous procedures on intersex infants. 

    In fact, GLAAD’s Alert Desk found that the increasing attacks on trans communities directly coincides with at least four executive orders from the Trump administration that specifically demean and discriminate against trans Americans, and following $215M in political ads during the 2024 campaign targeting trans people. 

    What those ads don’t state is that nearly all trans youth continue their care into adulthood, most studies show, and satisfaction rates are high. Despite its proven efficacy, legislative bans have disrupted or denied access to this health care, replacing nuanced medical decisions with blunt, all-encompassing restrictions.

    For now, as a need for change bellows out of the hearts and minds of LGBTQ people everywhere, verifiable truth in the face of disinformation can act as a basis for successful resistance efforts for trans equality. “The integrity of data and the power of research as a center of truth and a catalyst for change are critically important. Measuring is the first step in moving the needle on acceptance,” Marra said.

    More about the GLAAD Media Institute:
    The GLAAD Media Institute provides training, consultation, and actionable research to develop an army of social justice ambassadors for all marginalized communities to champion acceptance and amplify media impact. Using the best practices, tools, and techniques we’ve perfected over the past 30 years, the GLAAD Media Institute turns education into armor for today’s culture war—transforming individuals into compelling storytellers, media-savvy navigators, and mighty ambassadors whose voices break through the noise and incite real change. Activate with the GLAAD Media Institute now at glaad.org/institute.